Weddings & Commitment Ceremonies

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Your Love Story Deserves a Ceremony as Unique as You Are

Forget the template. Forget what you think a wedding ceremony "should" look like.

Let's create something that actually feels like you—something your guests will remember for years, something that makes your heart soar.

Whether you're planning an outdoor handfasting under the Shropshire oaks, a barn celebration with your dog as ring bearer, an intimate gathering in your garden, or an adventurous ceremony on a hilltop ...

I'm here to make it spectacular.

What's Included

Packages start from £595 and include:

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    Getting to Know You

    We'll meet in person or online—whatever feels comfortable. This isn't a sales pitch; it's a proper conversation over tea (or gin, no judgment) where I learn about your relationship, your story, and what matters most to you. I use questionnaires to gather details, but mostly I just listen.

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    Your Bespoke Ceremony Script

    This is where the magic happens. I write a completely unique ceremony based on your story, your values, and your personalities. You'll get sourced readings that resonate with you (not generic love poems unless you actually like those), a symbolic element that means something real, and a personal poem written specifically for you by me.

    This isn't Mad Libs with your names filled in. This is your ceremony, created from scratch.

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    A Symbolic Element

    Hand fasting with cords in your chosen colors. Honey tasting to represent the sweetness of your life together. Unity candles made from my own beeswax. Stone ceremonies where guests contribute something tangible. Jumping the broom. Tree planting. The four elements woven through your ceremony.

    We'll choose something that resonates with you, and I'll explain the meaning beautifully to your guests.

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    Final Review Meeting

    Before your big day, we'll meet again to go through the ceremony script together. You can make changes, add bits, remove anything that doesn't feel right. I want you to be thrilled with every word.

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    Conducting Your Ceremony

    On the day itself, I'll arrive early to connect with you, your families, and your suppliers. I'll create a warm, welcoming atmosphere. I'll deliver your ceremony with confidence, emotion, and probably a few smiles. And I'll make sure everyone feels included—yes, even Aunty Margaret who muttered something about "not being a proper wedding."

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    Optional Extras

    • Wedding rehearsal beforehand
    • Additional meetings if needed
    • Provision of symbolic element materials
    • Certificates (for those satisfying post-ceremony photos)

The Process

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    1. Get in Touch

    Send me a message with your ceremony date, location, and a bit about yourselves. I'll check availability and we'll arrange our first chat.

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    2. First Meeting

    We'll meet to talk about your vision. What kind of ceremony do you want? Outdoors or indoors? Formal or relaxed? Lots of readings or minimal? Family involvement or just the two of you? Funny or emotional or both? I'll ask questions, you'll tell stories, and we'll start building the picture together.

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    3. I Write Your Ceremony

    Using everything you've told me, I'll craft your ceremony script. This takes time—I write personal poems, research meaningful readings, weave in your stories and quirks. You're not getting something I wrote for another couple with the names swapped out.

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    4. Review Together

    I'll send you the script, and then we'll meet to go through it. You might want to tweak a line, add a memory, change a reading. Perfect. That's what this meeting is for.

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    5. Your Day Arrives

    I'll turn up early, introduce myself to key people, coordinate with your photographer and venue staff, and make sure everything runs smoothly. Then we'll celebrate your love in front of everyone who matters. I'll bring tissues.

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Why Choose Me for Your Wedding?

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    I Specialize in Outdoor & Natural Settings

    Woods, meadows, riversides, hills—this is where I'm happiest. I understand how to adapt ceremonies for weather (yes, even British weather). I know how to position guests for the best photos. I'm comfortable working without a sound system if needed, though I'll always recommend one for groups over 50.

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    I Love the Quirky and Different

    Same-sex couples, older couples, couples with children already, couples blending families, couples with pets in the ceremony, couples in fancy dress—bring it on. I've worked with families with additional needs, guests with dementia, and ceremonies conducted partly in BSL. Nothing fazes me.

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    I Write Poetry

    This is my secret weapon. A funny, touching, entirely bespoke poem about your relationship that makes people laugh and cry. It's what guests remember most, and it's what makes your ceremony unmistakably yours.

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    I'm Organized and Calm

    You'll never have to chase me. I'll respond quickly, keep everything on track, and be the calm, reassuring presence you need when things get hectic. On the day, I coordinate with everyone so you can just focus on getting married.

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    I'm Inclusive

    I've spent decades working with people with learning disabilities, autism, physical needs, and mental health challenges. If you or your guests need accommodations, let's talk about it. Everyone deserves to feel comfortable and included on your day.

Venue Ideas

I work regularly at:

Stately homes and country estates
Barns and farms
Private gardens and family land
Outdoor spaces (woodland, meadows, riversides)
Quirky venues that match your personality

I'm particularly fond of venues that let you be creative and that don't restrict you to their standard format. If you're planning something unusual, I'm your celebrant.

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Investment

Wedding ceremony packages start from £595.

Wedding ceremony packages start from £595.

This includes everything outlined above. Optional extras like rehearsals, additional meetings, or provision of symbolic materials can be added to create your perfect bespoke package.

I also offer commitment ceremonies and vow renewals at similar pricing—every love story deserves to be celebrated.

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Frequently Asked Questions

Do I need a legal ceremony separately?

In England, yes. Celebrant ceremonies aren't legally binding, so you'll need a quick registry office signing (usually £50-70) either a few days before or after your celebrant ceremony. Most couples find this takes the pressure off and lets them focus on the celebration itself. In Scotland, I can conduct legal ceremonies.

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Can we include our dog/children/unusual family member?